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HIHI is a great opportunity to volunteer to help people in need. Many
different tasks are available. Please take a little time to make a
difference. The days in which we are currently in need
are January 11th, January 25th, and February 8th.
Please call Parish Outreach (631-754-9045) to discuss where and when you would be able to help. You
may also leave this signed form in the Parish Outreach mailbox or in the church vestibule food
baskets.
Click here for the
HIHI Volunteer
List of Tasks and Sign Up Sheet for Camp Alvernia
If you would like to participate in a volunteer training program scheduled for this coming year,
please call Parish Outreach to register. Thank you.
From the Winter 2008 Edition of Clippings Magazine
Shelter
by Chris Lau, 11th grade AP English student
It is early December, and a bitter cold fills the air.
Snow slowly trickles to the ground and creates a
layer of white frost across the parking lot at Our Lady
Queen of Martyrs Parish. Winter is just beginning;
however, it feels as though it is late January. Standing
inside, sipping on hot cocoa, I feel the chills that a
New York winter brings. I can only imagine what it
must feel like for those who will have to sleep outside
tonight in tents and summer clothes. This is the life of
the day laborer.
A white van pulls into the church parking lot, and when
it comes to a stop, fifteen men pile out of the back and
run inside to the warmth and comfort of the heated
church basement. Some of the men are dressed appropriately
for the brutal winter weather, while others
have only a t-shirt and sweatpants to protect them
from the bitter cold. They sit down to a prepared dinner
of chicken, rice, and beans. After dinner, some
watch a Spanish movie. Others sit down to play a
game of dominoes or read a Spanish newspaper.
Even more sit around the table and talk about anything
and everything that comes to mind: their day,
their families, their lives.
At around ten, they will retreat to air mattresses that
are laid out on the floor, each with its own pillow and
blanket. There, they will spend the night. At 5:30 a.m.,
they will be woken up and taken to the Huntington
YMCA where they will be provided with a hot shower,
breakfast, and a bag lunch. Then, they will set off on
their own to find a job for the day. This is the life of the
day laborer.
I know these guys because every Saturday, from
November through March, I help out at Our Lady
Queen of Martyrs Parish to provide shelter for
Spanish day laborers that otherwise would freeze
to death sleeping outside in tents in the unforgiving
winter cold. At around 5:00 p.m., I begin to blow up
air mattresses, lay out toiletries and clothing, and set
up games, movies, and newspapers that the men
will be able to use when they arrive in the parish van
at around 6:30. Often, I eat dinner and play games
with them. I quickly learn that these guys, with the
exception of not having a fixed source of income, are
normal people despite the numerous stereotypes and
prejudices that they face every day. This is the life of
the day laborer.
In Huntington, many people regard day laborers as
the dregs of society, believing that they serve no real
purpose in the community. To many a white man, the
day laborers are useless. They are beaten constantly,
evicted from their homes, and cheated out of money
they spent the day working for. However, the white
man does not care, for they are just day laborers,
worth nothing more than the dirt beneath their feet.
The white man does not see what I see, for he fails to
look past their dirty clothes and unkempt hair. When
he sees a day laborer, he sees nothing more than a
man too lazy to find a real job and too useless to have
an actual role in society. However, every Saturday,
at our Lady Queen of Martyrs Parish, I get to see
inside them, even if it is just for an hour or so. With
this, I quickly learn that these men, often viewed as
worthless in a prejudicial and judgmental society, are
normal men, with feelings and families, just like you
and me.
Now don’t get me wrong. I’m certainly not saying that
all of the guys who come to the shelter every Saturday
go against the aforementioned stereotypes. Not all of
them are great guys. In fact, I’m sure that many of
them have made one bad decision or another which
unfortunately has led them to the position they’re
currently in. However, this gives no one the right to
judge them; the same way that I have no right to
glorify them. The bottom line is that, like everyone
else on this planet, they obtain the God-given right to
not be unfairly judged and to maintain a life free from
unwarranted stereotypes.
Every Saturday, by providing the day laborers with
food and shelter, we not only give them protection
from the cold, but protection from unfair stereotypes,
even if it is in the form of a friendly game of dominoes
or an air mattress to sleep on. And as I sit in
the church basement, eating with them, playing with
them, and talking to them, I begin to hope that one
day, the injustices that these men face will suddenly
disappear. This is the life of the day laborer.
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